How do I change the position of a link in the top menu?
The link position depends on the "position" parameter's value for each added link. By default, the link is added next to the last with a position value of 110.
You can change that value in the layout update file (/app/design/frontend/base/default/layout/et_latestreviews.xml).
Don't forget to copy that file to your theme before editing it, and flush the cache after you change it.